How to Golf with a Caddie

You Did It!

You’ve finally secured a tee time at that fancy club you’ve always wanted to play or booked a bucket list trip to a great golf destination.  But now a little panic has set in because caddies are required.  You’ve never had a caddie before, and you’re not sure what to do.

Relax.  We’re here with some straightforward advice about how to enjoy the experience and shoot a great round.


The number one concern of people who have never used a caddie is, “What if I play badly?”  My answer is, “Don’t worry about it.”

Anyone who has been caddying for more than a month has seen some truly awful golf, so you’re unlikely to be the worst they’ve seen.  More importantly, they don’t care how you play.  Your caddie cares way more about your pace of play and your general demeanor than how well you score.  If you’re a good person, your caddie will be happy to loop for you again.

If “forget about it” doesn’t work for you, then be up front with your caddie.  Let them know you’re nervous so they can help you relax.  Part of caddying is managing your attitude, and they can do a better job if you’re honest about how you’re feeling.

Rule #1

Now that we’ve calmed your nerves, please pay attention to the most important rule: treat your caddie like your own son/daughter/friend.

Your caddie is there to carry your bag.  They are not there to absorb your frustration with how you’re playing and all the bad breaks you’re getting.  This may seem obvious, but unfortunately it needs to be said.

Lighten Your Load

If you typically carry your own bag when you play, you can probably skip this section.  However, if you always ride, pay special attention.

Get the extra junk out of your bag.  Try my advice about carrying fewer clubs (check it out HERE).  Switch from your staff bag to a lightweight carry bag.

At many courses, if you show up with looking like Al Czervik in Caddyshack, they’re going to put your clubs into a carry bag anyway.  Unload the three dozen extra balls, the eight tubes of sunscreen, and your eighteen favorite ball markers.

Follow Their Advice, Ask for More

Your caddie wants to help you play well.  Take their advice.

The biggest value that a caddie provides, in my opinion, is their knowledge of the course.  Especially if you’re at a new track, heed their advice.  Only a local will know that a certain hole plays more uphill than it looks or that you can’t be left of a certain pin.

Also, don’t wait for your caddie to throw out suggestions.  If you want to maximize their value to you, ask for help.  Once you’ve signaled that you want their knowledge, they’ll be more forthcoming with ideas about what shots to hit.

Go Beyond Golf

Dylan Thaemert offered a tremendous addition to this list: don’t limit your caddie interactions to golf.  When we went to Bandon Dunes (much content HERE), we had a tremendous caddie, Dane.  Dylan reminded me that the best part of having Dane with us wasn’t his reads or his yardages – though both were otherworldly – it was his collection of stories.  He educated us on the history and culture of the place and told us stories that I’ll be retelling for years.

Especially when you travel, let your caddie be your personal historian.  Your caddie may know the history of the place – both the written and unwritten – better than anyone.

Don’t Be Cheap

Finally, call ahead and find out what the expected caddie fee and gratuity is at the course you’re playing.  Make sure you have at least that amount in cash.

When you stop for snacks, make sure to offer something to your caddie.

Finally, if you’re not taking a caddie, don’t expect any service.  The guy who is constantly asking someone else’s caddie for yardages and reads is the worst.  It’s not only disrespectful to the caddie, it’s also rude to whoever is paying him or her.

What Did We Miss?

Do you regularly golf with a caddie?  What advice do you have for your fellow golfers?  Share it in the comments section below.

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  1. Golf is way too expensive as it is. Courses that require you to use a caddie need to go the way of the dodo.

    • If you think Golf is too expensive, then you shouldn’t be playing at courses that require a caddie. Might I interest you in the local municipal?

  2. I rake my own bunkers and EVERY caddie appreciates it. I insist upon it. A caddie should not rake a bunker unless it’s speeding up play in my view.

  3. Matt- this is a great piece. I caddied decades ago for five years at Riverside Country Club west of Chicago and was fortunate to receive an Evans Scholarship. I agree with all your points but one-I always cared about how my member or guest played as I believed I was a partner who contributed to their success- I was happy when they had a good or great round and displeased when they had an off day . This was not only because tips were better with performance and gambling wins but it made the round more interesting and created a bond beyond employer- employee.

  4. charles sinacole

    if you belong to a golf club already and your not a normally cheap dude, and you tip the guy in the bag shack that has your clubs already on the cart for you prior your tee time, then tipping a caddie at another course wont be a foreign behavior to you. just treat him right, and not like a second class citizen, they are there to work and help you have a great day, not to be your slave.

  5. Excellent. Well said. As a caddie, I should have my guests read this on the way to the range.

  6. Brandon young kids and some young adults make a very good living doing a service like caddie for you to say that is just plan ignorant..if its to expensive i suggest u play the courses that do not require to use a caddy..and hopefully my son NEVER GETS i could imagine u stiffing him


    Thanks for the tips. While the caddie knows the course, you should know your bag, meaning which club to hit. I’m always nervous for the first two holes, even when playing alone. As a senior, I’m also tired after 15 or so holes. let your caddie know what club you’re comfortable with, so you can both be COMMITTED to your shot! Good lick!

  8. Travis Sandvik

    Great article. I’ve only used a caddie twice and naturally already how I was.

  9. Keep in mind if you call me “caddie” and not by my first name, I can read the greens so well that I’ll make sure you miss your putts by 1 inch and you’ll think it’s YOUR fault.

  10. Brandon… I’ve played Pebble Beach, Chambers Bay and Bandon Dunes with a caddie (none require a caddie, you can carry or roll your bag). But a caddie is the only authentic way to go! Pass on the cheeseburgers for a month or so and hire a caddie. You’ll be better off for it in two ways…

  11. John W Lewis

    Any honest professional golfer will admit or should admit that they can’t Win without a caddie. (Period)
    I LOVE the game of golf so much and revere its traditions and history. Nothing gives me more personal satisfaction than knowing that I have been kind and respectful to others…All human beings. Caddies fall in there somewhere, I’m certain, and in my view should rank anywhere near the top just because they willing submit themselves to be Servants.

  12. Love the caddy experience. Jerry took my daughter and I around on our second time at Pebble. He is a fantastic gentleman, really helped our score, but most of all, as you said, he had so many amazing, humorous stories. We laughed and were so relaxed. The round ended too quickly.

  13. Sorry Brandon, your missing the point. I get as much pleasure from watching my guest golfer enjoy there round as much as they get from our services. Regardless of there final score, we provide local course knowledge, history and trivial tidbits to enhance there experience. With proof that return request for services from past guest is a statement of job well done. ( Tips are encouraged ) As a current caddie I look forward to many more life experience’s with golfers who look forward to playing golf the way it was meant to be.

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